My Little Helper

I just love watching Sarah grow and develop. As I sit here typing she is hugging me and playing with me in her own unique way. Sarah is so far behind a typical four year old developmentally so I don't expect typical behaviors from her but sometimes she surprises me. Lately her new "thing" is to open all the drawers and cupboards in the kitchen. This is such a challenge to me as I try to remain patient and say, "No Sarah, that is not a choice" "Close the door, Sarah." She's learning--slowly--she's responding to my instructions. One behavior that took me pleasantly by surprise is how Sarah demonstrates a willingness to offer help and be an involved part of our family. It sounds a bit complex for her but guess what? She likes to help empty the dishwasher. Allowing her to help means the task actually takes longer than if I were to do it quickly myself but it is precious to see her learning a task that is not a direct benefit to her and is part of the housekeeping duties. She takes the cups out of the top rack and hands them to me one at a time. I take care of it from there. One at a time we empty all the dishes from the top rack. It so sweet to have my little girl helping me!